Achieve Personal Development
The switch
There’s always that dividing line, that sweet spot, between what we are striving for in our lives and the actual thing occurring. I like to call the mechanism that controls this “the switch.”
I think you guys know what I mean especially when it applies to our personal lives: One minute we are feeling one way about a particular person or situation, and the next minute are thoughts can be in a completely different direction. Something has shifted in our perceptions, our consciousness; most of the time we don’t know why or how that subtle shift in energy occurs, but one thing is for sure: when “the switch” occurs we know it.
So let’s examine “the switch” a little, especially when it comes to our personal finances, and let’s see if by increasing our consciousness, we can exert a little more control on the events that can change our financial situation.
There is no doubt that real change is slow, is a process and takes enormous patience. If you are one of those people that think you can change your financial life in a nanosecond, you are wasting your time reading this, so stop now. But if you are willing to put in the ground work you need to increase your chances of financial growth, then stay with me.
Here are some things I think you should do to increase your odds for “the switch” to occur: Realize first that what we are talking about here is a more conscious form of energy, that’s all it is (of course, that’s easy to say and it is the whole point here to become acquainted with new and more effective energy). It is your energy that has prevented you from achieving what you want, and it is by a sustained change to your energy that you will get exactly what you need and want. So here goes.
Be sincere in your efforts. You may think that your efforts have been sincere, but it could be your sincerity has been quite self-centered, so by sincerity I do not necessarily mean just being sincere in your money making pursuits, I mean being sincere in all your efforts in life. This type of energy can open up all kinds of opportunities that were previously unavailable to you. Another thing you can do is to stop doing things for others’ approval-I like to call this: stop playing for an audience.
It’s amazing how we are conditioned to seek the approval of all kinds of people; for real change to occur you have to narrowly focus your energy so that is more genuine, more pure – all this helps “the switch” to occur. Most important too for “the switch” to occur is become comfortable with change. For those most risk adverse, start small: go to your favorite restaurant and sit in an entirely new part, be bold and order something you have never had. Experience change on a regular basis.
Another thing to do to help “the switch” occur is to work with what you have right now. It’s human nature to dreamily think about the way you think things “should be,” but here’s a shocker: Things are exactly the way they should be right now for each of us. Accept this reality and don’t complain about it-this can free an unbelievable amount of the type of energy you need to reach your goal.
As usual, hope you guys enjoy this post and love your feedback.
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Great article.
I’ve been a reader of your blog for a bit of time and never commented. I am very intrigued with your writing style and ideas. Keep up the good work and keep the posts coming!
What can I say but thanks….lol.
One question and one comment:
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“Another thing you can do is to stop doing things for others’ approval-I like to call this: stop playing for an audience.”
…Head on! I used to do everything based upon fear that if I didn’t – I wouldn’t still be accepted, liked, etc. I now live a much more vibrant life.
Question…
“Be sincere in your efforts. You may think that your efforts have been sincere, but it could be your sincerity has been quite self-centered, so by sincerity I do not necessarily mean just being sincere in your money making pursuits, I mean being sincere in all your efforts in life.”
…are you talking about manifestation – like the ‘Secret’?
I can’t really compare myself or my writing to “The Secret” because I have never read it. Therefore, I can only inform you of the intent of my words: to share what I know about creating the optimal conditions to make and sustain real change in your life.
Thanks.
“…I mean being sincere in all your efforts in life.”…I meant do you feel that you have to always project everything you want in an underlying belief, so that that in order to achieve – you must believe?
I don’t disagree with what you say but I think you need to do a whole lot more than believe in order to achieve….i.e. you need to take sustained action with a certain energy