No Interference

I am not talking about a football strategy either, although as a former quarterback in my schoolyard days, I can appreciate that as well.

I am talking about all the roadblocks we automatically inject into our daily lives by unwarranted interference in others’ lives. It’s time to take a good hard look at our efforts, and see whether there is any pay dirt for us or anyone else.

I thought about this topic for a while, and tried to contrast it to a position I take in my book Monergy, where I contend that responsibility to act in any life situation falls on the person with the most consciousness. I strongly suggest in the book that once your economic goals are realized and you have the ability to tap into the energy to sustain that change, that you are truly a “privileged” person. As such, it is incumbent upon you to recognize and take a stand when evil arises in your daily life, because otherwise, you become an enabler. And after all, what point is having all the money in the world if the world is an ugly place to live in.

I still believe that one needs to take a very active stand in daily life and take action when evil arises in one’s “energy sphere.” However, what I am talking about is the more frequent type of interference we all do in each other’s lives, interference more often motivated by ego(I know better than you) than by a desire to preserve the sweetness and integrity of daily life.

More often than not, this type of ego based interference results in a negative double whammy: not only do we fail to manipulate the situation to our liking, but we also succeed in alienating the people whom we seek to “help.” The lesson here is that each of us most go through ,many lessons in life ourselves at our own pace before we can move on. When we interfere because we are “wiser,” and are going to help avoid painful lessons for another, we act against the universal energy, which does a much better job teaching people lessons than we could ever fathom.

If you like, practice not interfering in others lives and let me know some of the results.